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Donald Nelson's avatar

And after all , do you think there would be any attraction without the difference ? Isn’t the attraction between ant two people based on curiosity about the” difference” the other person offers. Otherwise we could have blow up dolls that look just like ourselves 😊

Sarah's avatar

The attraction comes from someone giving you something that you are looking for, while making you feel that you are giving something that you want to give. But it's all related to that idea of expansion of self--we are motivated to find difference in order to expand ourselves. 😊